:: Us:
Yvonne & Matthew
19
19th Jan & 24th July
*On holiday & @ McMaster University

.FAITH, HOPE, & LOVE...
and the greatest of them is LOVE...

:: Loves:
God
You
Eeyore
Summer hols. =)

:: Looking Towards:
One goal
One future
One life

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Mopatop
&
Telly Gal




 

November 20, 2004

Some random thoughts

Read in a psychology textbook that a love/marriage can only last if the ratio between each person's perceived contributions and returns in the relationship is equal. Simply put, each person does not have to contribute or receive equally in the relationship, but as long as whatever is perceived is equal, thats enough. Well whatever it is, wouldn't it be great if each person feels that they've gotten more than they deserve? Then there would be no break-ups, no nothing of this kind. Heh. How beautiful would the world be then? Haha. But there is to be no sunshine without rain yea, so i guess its alright. =)

been spending alot of time these 2 days studying, and mugging, but also thinking about the things that are going on in my own life lah. Not sure if the person i am is actually the person i appear to be. I dun wanna appear false to anybody around me, and i dun wanna make people feel as though i've a hidden, and somewhat reserved part of me, all the way inside. But then again, i can't really control what others think of me yea. Sad, but true. Reflection is so important.

I think i've changed quite abit ever since i came over, but thats not necessarily a bad thing what, see, at least now i know that you can't cook without a maximum fire, your food's gonna turn black. =P And things like that... small changes, but many small changes make up big changes. I hope i've become a better person, a person for others, a person to others.

Lets work together to keep this bank account alive. =)

Now its back to worrrrrrrrrrk. Blah. I think exams suck. Heh.

 

 
 

 

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